In a world where I still believe that most people are genuinely kind at heart, I am never disappointed by the generosity exhibited around the Holidays. The story of the anonymous donors at Kmart moved me to tears — not because of the physical gift-giving itself, but because of what the person who wanted to give, yet couldn’t afford, was able to give with the assistance of the donor.
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While I am no advocate of frivolous material purchases, I can understand wanting to give someone you love a special gift. It’s a terrible feeling when you can’t give a person what they want — especially a child. So, it was this bridging of the gap between the desire to give a special gift and the financial limitations that wouldn’t allow it, that made my eyes well up with tears.
I have always loved the Holidays for many reasons, but mostly because people are a much more kind and gentle version of themselves. But what if we didn’t limit this behavior to Christmastime?
Close your eyes and imagine not thinking, “that’s someone else’s problem, not mine.” Imagine a smile between strangers not warranting suspicion or clutching your wallet or purse. Imagine not feeling the need to hoard or save precious resources because there’s enough to go around. Imagine looking at someone else whose life is nothing like yours, yet still being able to focus on what you have in common — not the differences. Imagine seeing someone in need and not questioning their motives or judging how they ended up in the circumstance before lending a hand.
Once you’ve finished imagining all of this, open your eyes. What do you see? I still see that world we imagined. I see a world where we give every day like it was Christmas — and yes, it does bring tears to my eyes…
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